Saturday, July 28, 2012

The "List"- Part 2



The beauty of God giving me a list for my husband is that He also gave me a list to strive for as a future wife someday. As with the previous entry, He used the same movie to show me what I should be in a future wife. There are so many things I need to continue to surrender to the Lord and allow Him to grow in me, but this is what He has given me so far to strive for as a future wife.


WIFE

1. A woman who puts God first (part of God's family)

2. Ambitious and has goals
     - Proverbs 31:15-16 says "She rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and portions for her maidens."

3.  She has boundaries

4. She makes her husband want to be a better person
    - Proverbs 31:11 says "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."

5. She is a woman of faith
    -Proverbs 31:30 says "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised."

6. She is willing to follow her husband's vision and submit to his leading

7. She is beautiful (inside and out- this is not beautiful as in what the magazines show, but TRUE beauty).

8. She is pure

9. She has a servant's heart

10. She desires to be a mother

11. She is modest

12. She encourages her husband and is his biggest cheerleader (even if she doesn't "feel" like it)

13. She "covers" her husband (instead of throwing him under the bus or talking badly about him (unnecessarily), she speaks highly of him).